MB...such a difficult situation. I can definitely understand your frustration with H. Did I read on one of these threads that H has a history of infidelity with previous partners?
Glad you had a nice visit with your D though! IHOP sounds yummy!
Butterc...Sounds like the "everything is fine" was just a tactic to smooth things over so you wouldn't dig around and uncover his deception. In my experience, when they are getting their needs met by the OW, they tend to be more disagreeable and unwilling to talk to you about their problems because they don't need anything from you. It's really hard to do any sort of repair work when they are in that phase. Is H still with OW? I need to read up more on your sitch.
