NYGal's Adventures Continue

[rich4j]

NYGal...I really liked your post as this is all a frustrating, heartbreaking situation no matter what your sitch is.

Nobody knows what the approach is best for your sitch as everyone is different and reacts differently

I got here too late. I truly think that if I kept my space and had this advice months ago I could be in a different situation today but I clung, begged, pushed for cousneling and it blew up. I am now served with D papers.

So sometimes you have to weigh the options and do what is best for you in your heart. This all seems counter intutive but I think its part fixing and healing yourself and part pushing back on someone who has taken advantage of you regardless of the sitch.