That would be such a bad move Tam - step away from the phone and no-one gets hurt, remember?

You don't want to become OW to your H's current R - truly you don't. Hold your head up high, be graceful and move forward with your own life. He has nothing good to offer you while he is actively in a R with someone else, and you are worth so much more than that my friend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus