Agreed with V on not believing what you hear/see. I would add to that: QUIT TRYING TO MAKE CONCLUSIONS.
I really really need to work on this. Im always trying to make conclusions or wrap my head around things. Its hard.
Here's the hard facts. There is nothing you can do right now to feel better.
I think I needed to hear that. I keep telling myself I just want to feel better..but you are right either way Im going to hurt. In limbo now or getting a divorce from my best friend.
The only thing you can trust are your beliefs. Your core values. That is why I'm a proponent of the mission statement. What beliefs do you have that you will follow regardless of your feelings?
I have to think on this one. Im Not sure. Im think and post back later.