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I was starting to think no one was reading my thread anymore!

Still here

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So is this something I leave for her to deal with?


Yes

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Let her come to me?


Or let her not come to you and drop those expectations

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Just put it out of my mind and live my life. Let her deal with it?


Yes


Really I think you would've been better not turning back when she started crying. Let it sink in. Instead you force her to prove to you that she is still set on this path so she doesn't give you false hope.

As a LBS you have two choices- you can hurt things, or you can leave them alone. NOTHING you do makes it better. Best thing is to leave it the heck alone. Any involvement in her journey backfires.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15