A New Chapter

[Elly4]

Hi Mu. I don't believe you were rubbing my nose in it...it's why I stayed in limbo with him for the last 16 months. It was best for my s. Now I just try to help him realize that whatever happens, he is loved and will be okay.

I hate that we tried so hard to have a child, and now that we have this amazing little child, H isn't happy in life.

E

[mutatio]

Petty distractions can turn a man into a fool and ruin the only thing of real value in ones life, his family

[Elly4]

I know.

[Elly4]

Was trying to get the ice off the back steps today, something H used to do. I fell down them, something H never did.

Oh well, another day, another ache.

[ARose]

Elly, just catching up on your sitch and saying hello. I hope you are ok, that ice is bad news!

I am sorry about your dog.

[mutatio]

I use calcium chloride on my front stoop. It works very fast and does not damage anything. I hope you did not injurer yourself. It must be difficult having to do everything yourself now. If you have any questions feel free to ask, although you probably need a hand more then advice. Peace

[Elly4]

Hi Fo! Thanks for stopping by. I'm one big bruise today, but it gave my S a reason to stick bandaids all over me and play the part of a doctor for the night. He even decided I needed surgery. :P

Mu, I use a dog safe product...is calcium chloride safe for pets?

It's definitely interesting finding the things that he did and then finding out how to do them. I wouldn't say it's difficult, but empowering in some ways. We pretty much split the work, but the maintenance stuff was done by him and heavy stuff. My S said one day, while watching me change the water filter, that D needs to learn how to do your jobs and you need to learn D's jobs. I agreed.

Nice to hear that he's having to learn the things that I've been doing too.

Have a great weekend,
E

[ARose]

Elly, I think the purple mohawk woman sent you a message?

[mutatio]

Calcium chloride is not safe for pets. I only use it on the front steps. The dog only goes out the back door to the fenced in yard.

Enjoy each moment with your son, they grow up so fast.

[Elly4]

Fo, a message on here? I didn't think we could.

I had a wonderful day with my son. I love cuddling up to him and listening to him. He is my daily blessing.

E