Those of you who are separated, how do you greet your spouse when you meet?
Usually I just nod, say hello and briefly look STBXW in the eyes.
I try to avoid physical contact as much as possible and also try to be brief in the interactions.
Yesterday STBXW greeted me and said goodbye with a kiss in each cheek, our traditional way of salutation.
I could not avoid it since I was caught by surprise and was at a friend's house.
But I did not like at all such free and loose behaviour.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15