I have to confess I wear my frillies out of the house. However I get it you want to be the one she wears her best for.
And this phase will be so tough if you can't detach. Of course insist on NC and openness so you can determine NC.
I don't believe it's possible to bully shame or guilt another into loving you. You can insist on fair treatment and openness.
Your W is in withdrawal from her A and the OM. It would be best if she changed job and perhaps concentrated on her career. It's time to build a schedule of joint activities and build a plan of activity.
Are there trips, holidays or shared activities you can do together?
Are you going out for meals and shared activities?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
