2016 a New Year - getting out of my own fog

[Irish M]

I do think people KNOW the truth underneath all the stories

Hi Peace, yes I believe this as well. It still hurts that she has to create all these stories and continue to do it. She is with OM and she is not seeing her kids. Her choice.

She really is a lost one and it's going to take a long time for her to recover, if ever.

I agree Job, I read so many sitchs here and I am yet to find one that resembles mine. She was so manic and now set in her ways,,. with the ups and downs of what seems to be regret bit no action to resolve her relationship with the D's. I know no MLC is the same.. but mine is off the chart. Sure there are similarities of the ILYBDLYU and the obsession of OM.. but dropping her kids like that. Night and day for her character.

You're doing a great job as a dad and your Ds are very lucky to have as their rock. W sounds like a very trouble person and you would have to feel for her

Thanks for ringing in RD. yes troubled soul she is. I do feel for her. W or not. I'm doing my best. Today I was doing their nair poolish then brought them out to get some new bras... I offered to stay in the car and give them money.. they said no no.. i went in and waited by the checkout to just pay the bill. The lady behind the cash found it cute that Daddy was doing this. I gave them their privacy.

We decided not to go see FIL. The girls wanted nothing to do with anybody that reminds them of their Mother.


Leigh4
Thanks for dropping in .. you are going through your own changes to your sitch. Your new place.
congrats on that. Thanks for the prayers they are much welcomed.

There are times they speak the truth and not being a mom anymore was one of those times. Go figure.

Mirage
You are so right.. this is the only thing i believe from her. Sad, very sad.
I hope things change for my W and the D's. 7 months is a long time to lose as a parent of young teens. They grow so fast into young adult. I can't imagine 7 years. The kids will live with this forever and will deal with it as they get older. Yes i know the adventure for me has just started. Funny thing, it feels like only a couple of weeks.

Sotto
They say they become the opposite during the MLC fog journey to lalaland. My W was mum of the year for many years.. in her own way( red flags of narcissistic behavior did pop up now and again). She chose to take jobs close by to be available to the D's . now moved miles away. Still says shes there for them on appointment however

Thanks so much for all your support .. you are all amazing people. Being served is good. I need to get this old marriage over and done.

Irish