REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!#2

[Butterc]

And, in response to what you wrote, I ALREADY AM the most attractive option for him right now. You should see the OW! What in the world does he see in her? WHY would he ever pick her over me? I have so much more going for me than she does. I will never understand what he's thinking.

So what reasons can you give him to want to be there? What needs can you meet? Can you be more attractive and accomplished than OW AND meet the needs that OW is filling? Just some food for thought... [/quote]


Not meaning to hijack your thread MB ...Annab, would you mind expanding on this a little? How can one meet their WAS's needs when you're(I'm) not left with a clue as to what was this unmet need in the first place? Especially when they leave suddenly without warning?