Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

[ATPeace]

Ok so spoken to my mum she is not happy about me moving home she feels that I need to stay in the house to protect my interest in the property

I will speak to a solicitor Monday or Tuesday my mum would rather me stay in the house but go pretty much no contact

Also on a side note I took my children to my mums tonight for them to see her my W was complaining to me because it is my little girls bedtime at 7.30 and we were not leaving till 6:45pm it is not like our daughter has never been later to bed ...in fact frequently when we went to my mums we would often get home after 9.30pm

What is it going to be like when we are living in separate houses will my W still want to tell me what I do and do not do and if I upset her will she try and stop me from having Her?

I am Feeling totally despondent and,resigned,to what is happening absolutely