Mleigh - you did a really nice job of doing your own thing regarding the dinner situation.

And as much as I joke about your h being a sofa, when he peeks over that fence at you, he does actually talk to you about work and other things. That is nice and quite mature! (I am impressed because me h is texting me to bark hello to our dog.)

I saw your post on my thread saying that it is attractive to see men who accept their aging. I totally agree!! I see a lot of little boy in your h, but I am wondering if he has shown outward fear or disgust about his own aging? Does he dress younger or do any of that?

Can you believe this is our reality?!?

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced