Chiming in to say, think of it as a business decision. Who gets what isn't based on who lives where. Assets need to be split based on what belongs to who. Don't let emotions get in the way, you could end up kicking yourself for that!
Hope you are feeling better. It's easy to read from your posts that you are a sweet, compassionate, smart and strong woman. You seem to know how to keep yourself going, good job Sotto
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-