Pregnant with #6, husband in love with OP

[Irish M]

Hi six
Just read your situation. So sorry you are here.

Your situation is different than mine but your H is so much like my W.

My W has also became the worst parent over night. Kids were priority for her before. Even took local jobs near the school to be close. Now she's moved out of town and gave me fil custody. She is in Lalaland with OM. Your H is deep in his fog and affair fog too. Abducted by aliens I don't know. WhT I do know is don't beleive his spew on you. Your H said all the same things my W said to me.
It's script. Them projecting onto us what they feel they are. Also to justify their reason for leaving. My W also walked around with a recorder. What are they thinkng ? Lol
What worked for me is avoid. Let them run.

I'm so happy your S is home. My D15 is an old sole too like your S. This has matured her so much. I wish they could not have this in their life and just be kids and not have this in their minds.

I see you have so much support here :-) I'm glad you found this place.

I truly believe the MLC doesn't feel the whole concequeces until every thing is final. Finances, house, custody and sadly divorce. These are over anyway.
Make room for you and your kids . If H wakes up you will b in a better place

I hope you did Cali's list of three things. I'm 7 months in and I'm going to do it for myself.

Stay strong, you are not alone

Hugs
Irish