I have that question too. I miss my x so much but also want a partner. The problem is I'm still in love with x and not a single person am I attracted to!
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since