2016 a New Year - getting out of my own fog

[Irish M]

Papers served ...

I got served today. Read them and laughed.

Everything we detailed in mediation was there.
She is still even giving me full custody. No surprise.No fight at all. She did claim parental alienation though. Guess she doesn't remember the psychologist that I got to work with her and the D's ( she cancelled). The multiple emails of me asking her to work with me on helping fix that relationship( until I figured it's not my job, she broke their trust she can win it back). Her texts to them saying she doesn't want to live with them, she wasted the last 15 years raising them and the best one...doesn't want to be a mom. Finally her refusal for me to bring the D's to mediation. I've done over and above.

I was disappointed that she had them delivered to the house. The D's were present.
They were quite upset. I reassured them that this changes nothing and it was happening anyway. To them it was just a confirmation that W broke all that we had for an OM whom she met 2 weeks after BD.


Me,I was happy. I just saved some $ to my lawyer doing these documents.
I have to add a few things because W forgot to add the $ she owes me. A couple grand. Also she's trying to claim the money I put into a college fund for my D15. What is that. It's in my D's name and W was beneficiary if anything happened. I changed it to D13 after BD. D13 fund was unmentioned.

W emailed them again wrote the same old text. Love you , miss you, hot chocolate... But added: I know I made huge mistakes and I regret them.
No details or specific apology. Both D's said it at the same time... She made mistakes??? Well what is she doing to fix it? Nothing.
Then they said they were done.

I see my lawyer Monday. I will write him an email detailing what happened the last few months since I saw him before mediation started. This will save the chit chat and added fees for sitting in his office. They do like to talk.

One more step to cutting all ties to W.