Maybe there IS another women.. He came over at 8 am with donuts from a city over (opposite) of where he is staying. I shouldn't have asked but I said casually ( the address is huge on the box) these are new. We've never been there..its kinda out of the way from our house but they are delicious donuts. He said he didnt spend the night at his parents then went into our room to lay down. I really think there might be someone.