I can definetly relate about the loneliness. My ex took my child and my dogs 2 days before hurricane Sand hit and destroyed my state. She never told me where she moved to. That was the last time I saw her or had any interaction. It took some time to not feel lonely. I did a lot of things to keep me busy. I began to enjoy being alone so that concerned me. At that point I started dating it felt right.

Take your time. Learn to enjoy your alone time. Dont look at it as being abandoned. This is a very painful experience but you will learn to deal with things and life very differently. The freedom to do what ever became exciting and concerning...Gal my friend


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden