Hi MB - OPs are always 'affair downs' in some way. The OW my H had/is having an A with is much younger, attractive and intelligent. However, she is also an emotional train wreck. Her last R was also an A and then she cheated on him with my H - but last I heard, her former partner was still in the mix somewhere - nightmare!!

Just know that who you are and all that you value in yourself are what really matters xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus