Rich, have you thought about a divorce support group of a divorce recovery workshop? Not sure where you are, but try googling rebuilding workshops or DRW and see what comes up. It has helped me to meet a group of people in similar circs, and there tends to be a social scene afterwards too - and lots of support. Much better than moving into dating too early I think.
If I feel lonely now, I tend to use that time to fix up some new things for myself - either in the way of GAL, meeting friends or support.
Take care xx
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