Yes, I think managing and coping with the fear is the no 1. Priority. The fact is S may happen....and my guess is if it does, the reality will be FAR less bad than the fear...
But I think you need to address the fear anyway. Staying together out of fear for the alternative isn't a good plan anyway...
When is your next IC appt? X
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus