I am the SAME WAY DON'T FEEL BAD. Its a struggle for me as well. I hate change..but I'm trying. I Go between doing 180 but then my separated husband seems to have pulled away and angry more since doing it so now I paranoid Im making us worse vs better. We will figure it out!
. What does your 180 look like? I mean, what are you doing in your 180? Is he angry because you're actually making him mad, or is possible that he's confused because he isn't getting the normal response from you and he's unsure of what's going on? Might not be a bad thing depending on why he responding like that.
I am so sorry that you're going through this too. It is a horribly selfish and cruel thing that they are doing to us. I would have NEVER done anything like this to him and would have never thought he would have treated me this way either. So frustrating.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it