My xh2 his fantasy was he would have a gf and "we" would still have the best bits of our life!!!!
Um nope, I told him straight up, why would I want to disrespect my new partner or yours that way?
He told me it would totally work. So I asked ok, so how? What's the rules?
Not that I was going to adhere to his plan, but to see how much thought he had given it, and it was zippo zero nada. Same as the settlement he has hired a L that's saying no need. His L is stating even stuff that was mine that I don't need it. It's not mine, not that xh2 has been holding onto it.
It will get craze, it will be weird, it is what ever it turns into.
They just live on another planet don't they? Total cake and eating it syndrome- anyway he is slowly but surely realising that that definitely will not be the reality! When he calls to speak to his son 3/4 of the time my son refuses to talk to him - his friends apart from a couple of them have all written him off, his family hate him for what he has done and are not talking to him-i really hope he thinks this girl is worth everything he has lost - it's mad!
Once we move away he will have nobody but her around here, no friends, nothing- it's like he will have rot totally start from scratch again
I just think people would be annoyed at him if it was just me but would be a bit more forgiving, but we have 2 babies (ages 1 and 3) what sort of a man runs off with a girl 13 years younger than him when he's got such massive responsibilities? You communicate! You voice any concerns you have and you teuntonwrok through them and if you can't, then you walk away but you treat people with respect! Sorry ... Just feeling angry today
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
