I picked up s14 a few hours a ago. Seeing him and texting with d19 is giving me new determination that standing for our marriage is a battle worth fighting.
I mentioned to s14 that his Mom said she had a difficult week with you. S14 told me he has stopped talking to W b/c om continues to live there.
Then I was texting with d19 and I mentioned s14 had gone to bed at 8 pm, and that he must have had a tough week. D19 said that when she was in town last weekend, that it was clear that s14 and om HATE each other. This also confirms what d18 told me when she recently visited.
I have never met om, but I know he has a criminal record involving drinking and anger. S14 is a big strong kid, who is going thru a really tough time. I am scared.