at this point it may be best to just get some kind of agreement in place where if someone leaves it is not adbandoment and you get yourself out of there, I think this may get bad staying there in your emotional state.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15