Time to leave the house G. The line was crossed today my friend.
W felt threatened, under pressure, angry AND she was holding YOUR BABY.
This is the behaviour W experiences as a abusive and controlling. And G I would feel the same.
Pack some things and go and stay with your mum like you were talking about with V.
Things need to decompress. W needs you to behave like a man that respects himself, and loves his W and children. Let her feel like you have finally heard and listened to her.
No more of these types of incidents G. ENOUGH. I know managing your emotions is extremely difficult right now, I am coming to realise that your emotions have been switched off for years and this threat to your marriage, has triggered you to having to feel. You go from 0-100 on the emotional scale in no time. But G, sh*t man. The above can't happen again.
You can organise to get the house fixed away from the home. When is your next IC session?
G, Rule of thumb for now, when you want to take an action, STOP! Just don't do anything. Then run the issue and your feelings by us here, we have yours and your family's best interest at heart I tell ya! And then go back in with a plan.
