Day by Day..Hour by Hour 2

[Zues126]

I'm pretty pissed too. Sometimes on my bad days I feel like all the problems in the world are because of WAS's. I never said I was mature. Reading this forum sometimes makes me get angry again to see how people treat each other. People and their quest for personal happiness. Good job humankind.

But then I go back to being appreciative for what I DO have. Here's the thing. I believe that WAS's should've stayed put, STFU, and been loyal partners, and then maybe they would've found out that the grass is greener where you water it. Maybe they would've learned they could've been happy with the R they had. But at the same time I believe that us LBS's can also learn to be happy with the life WE have. Really, the journey to making a marriage work and learning to be appreciative of life without a marriage is very similar...it starts by letting go of happiness as something that is conditional and embracing life on God's terms.

Cheer up a grumpy zues and give me a few things that are good in your life, and a few things that you are looking forward to. It would make me glad to see you doing a small step to offset some of that anger. You deserve it.