I think I semi good today. When he came, I gave him alone time with the kids while I organized stuff in my room. He eventually came into our room and tackled me onto the bed to ask what I'm doing. I told him just organizing then left to go do stuff in the kitchen. He kinda followed me around but I tried being nice but distant.
I failed at the end when he wanted a hug. Instead of normal hug he lifted me up into his arms with my legs around his waist and put his head against my forehead. I know I need to set boundaries. Im just not good at it..I wish I knew what he was thinking but I know I can't ask about us.
My marriage therapist says that he's like the weather. Changes his mind many times a day or week and until he talks I need to try to keep focusing on me and kids. Its so much easier said then done. I can't wait until I have a job..at least to distract me.
