The Start of my Happiness 2

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Tyler,

From my seat, you didn't take a step back. She talked to YOU, right? How did you end up looking? Like a good guy, a listener? That's the essence of DB'ing!

If she had to cut the conversation short, something happened, no biggie. When you BOTH have the opportunity to end the conversation, doing it first is advantageous.

I think you keep the debt list until she has been paid. At least she'll have something to give you when you present the debt. Asking now, when she's already stressed about money, would be asking for trouble.