Flight's Thread #2

[Flight]

So now the big question is what to I do as part of getting my own life. We have been at this over a year now and if anything with us still living together, things have grown colder. Even when we have a moment of connection, she rethinks it later and we are back to square one. She is really desperate to be separated and to be able to go and find out if the EA she had is true love. He is waiting for her.

So now I can sell the house, which I don't want to do, or refi and figure out a way to get her at least enough money for her to leave. She insists she must purchase a new home for herself. That would seem to put the final nail in our coffin, though anything is possible 6 months down the road, I suppose.

My last option is something I have been pondering for a long time. I just want there to be some accountability for all this. In my state, I can sue the AP. That will probably remove any chances of reconciling once I do that, but it will bring everything out in the open and give me closure. Thoughts?