My W and,I,spoke today she told me she was unhappy living the way we are and thinks it is affecting the children she wants us to go to mediation she knows how much I do not want to be on my own massive fear for me I still do not know how I will cope I get distraught at the thought and break down thinking about it .
I say we can get someone in to values the house she says it is not ready to sell we have had a leak and the ceiling is damaged so I say we have too much clutter and I start to chuck unused things into a bin bag my W flips out as I am chucking other people's things that really are just clutter
Things flared up and I have not ever seen my W so angry ever....she was furious she went to leave the house with my two year old I had no idea here she was planning on going W was crying I was crying this got our daughter crying my W said you are upsetting her I tried stopping her from going she yelled aggressively at me don't you dare do that don't you dare ....she went in to another room crying toddler crying her blaming me it was a horrible situation and one with anger that I have never seen from her we spent the next couple of hrs talking
She sees the only way forward is to be in separate houses and has no intention on working on things
I really am a very long way from accepting things are over and I am a very long way away from being able to cope when my W wants to go into separate houses
I know I am going over much of the same it was just how mad she was that totally took me by surprise
Time to re read Sandis rules and detach some more
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
