The problem is she told me I was neglectful and controlling. She said she just needed away from me. I gave her the space and helped her find a rental. I am only communicating via text right now and just about the boys. She did mention that I needed counseling so I am getting that; I have a one on one counselor and started today with the telephone coaching here. Additionally, I am going to set up and appointment with my priest.
Okay, but do you know why you are going to see a counselor and the priest?
I think a ton of LBS's use their kids as an excuse to contact their spouse. What are some examples of information do you give about the boys when you feel you need to tell her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
