The problem is she told me I was neglectful and controlling. She said she just needed away from me. I gave her the space and helped her find a rental. I am only communicating via text right now and just about the boys. She did mention that I needed counseling so I am getting that; I have a one on one counselor and started today with the telephone coaching here. Additionally, I am going to set up and appointment with my priest.

She was not married before. However the oldest boys dad left her as soon as she got pregnant in high school. The youngest's dad she did have a relationship for some years. He was abusive physically and he cheated on her. She found this out at the end of the relationship and she was devastated.

I know I am in a panicky situation and I am trying to get better at it. Yesterday I was good and today I am train wreck.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16