First time poster-needs advice

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I think we have finally dug out from all the snow we were under...and now I can get back to DBing. Although maybe I could count the shoveling as my GAL activity

I had a ton of shoveling to do and felt bad for myself for a few minutes...but then had to remind myself that I got to be with the kids all weekend and I should be grateful b/c H didn't.
I still spent way too much time wondering where he was and what he was doing, but at least now I don't try to figure it out. I think I finally turned a corner a few weeks back and truly get that I can't control what he does.
I'm still doing pretty well on the no contact for unnecessary reasons front. I think I only texted once in the last week and that was to change something with the kid exchange.

My H and I did get into one long text exchange that was initiated by him. We were trying to coordinate one of the kids sports schedule and the back and forth turned into a nightmare. It started out innocently enough just trying to figure out who was going to drop off. The exchange ended with H asking me over and over why I wasn't going to every event when in the past I always did. I have looked back over the exchange several times and I really have no idea where he got the idea that I wasn't going. I am convinced that he doesn't read half of what I write to him. Sometimes it is soo frustrating!