NYGal...I agree. Don't let her know she still has you on the hook. Be friendly if you run into her...happy, cheerful, pleasant, and act like you are completely unbothered by anything that has happened. She is putting out her feelers to make sure she still has the option to come back. She needs to be the one worrying that she is going to lose her chance unless she straightens up...
Originally Posted By: NYGal
That sounds like a good plan to list what does and doesn't work. I've been all jazzed this week because W and I had some flirty conversations. (Her: I guess I really was stalking you. Me: I can't say I'm offended by that.) But then I think, if she is still with sow, I'm just letting her know I'm still available. That's not going to help me save my M, is it? I'm basing all this on the assumption that sow is no longer in favor. But I really don't know that. When W said "I need more time alone", I don't know how alone that meant. I guess the bottom line is the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is what we have to trust in.
I'm starting to worry that sow might be at the game tonight. It was so nice not to have to see her last week that I'm not really prepared to see her tonight.