My xh still says "we" frequently. It's just semantics at this juncture. I want to be very clear-my xh isn't a bad guy. He has behaved badly and well, I have tried very hard to do what is right for me. Me? This taught me a great deal about myself and what I have to focus on. I;m not the greatest at romantic relationships and I fully acknowledge I wasn't wife of the century.
Only you can decide what is right for you. You are trying to get a time frame when there isn't one. You decide how long :)Keep living. That's the best way to decide what your next move is.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer