BREATH! Stop being so hard on yourself. Sticking with DB strategies is hard work and everyone messes up sometimes. It happens! Hit your inner reset button and begin again because you can.
I'm glad you found Michele's book to be inspirational. Follow Cadet's advice by keeping it to yourself. These are your tools. Focus on being the best hmc and Mom that only a fool would leave without any relationship talk. Show him, dont' tell him, what his is giving up.
Thanks for the vote of confidence on the DB Coaching Zues126. Getting a DB Coach will help you figure out which strategies to use when and how to specifically handle his cake eating behavior.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be.
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