That sounds like a good plan to list what does and doesn't work. I've been all jazzed this week because W and I had some flirty conversations. (Her: I guess I really was stalking you. Me: I can't say I'm offended by that.) But then I think, if she is still with sow, I'm just letting her know I'm still available. That's not going to help me save my M, is it? I'm basing all this on the assumption that sow is no longer in favor. But I really don't know that. When W said "I need more time alone", I don't know how alone that meant. I guess the bottom line is the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is what we have to trust in.

I'm starting to worry that sow might be at the game tonight. It was so nice not to have to see her last week that I'm not really prepared to see her tonight.

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat