Hi Isit, I'm sorry to hear this. As you know, my H filed on these grounds, but I provided some examples he could use - really to spare myself the hurt of receiving what you received.

Is what you have a draft for comment? (That's what I initially got - I didn't change anything, but I could have suggested changes before the D petition was logged.) You can make comments even if you don't contest too.

What stung me more was the wording of the court letter for the decree Nisi, saying the judge deemed H couldn't reasonably be expected to remain M to me, given my behaviour. I'm sure it's just a standard letter....but ouch!

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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