I'm not sure though that he realises or accepts the massive mess he has caused! At first he was saying "we'll still be a family, you'll love here and I'll always be close by" total non grip on reality!! I think in his mind he thought nothing much would change!
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
