Wait, is it his mother that is sick right now? Or, his grandmother? Sorry, I can't remember.
It's his mom MB. And our sitch is complicated. His work schedule is only semi fixed. He works 5 to 7 days a week and from 8 to 12 plus hours. Due to weather he may have a day off. Other times his boss finds other things for them to do.
His place is falling apart since we left him. True? Who knows. But he can't visit with them at his. And since we have no extra money (hmmm wonder why) he can't take them to any of the indoor play areas.
So until he gets a new place and/or the weather warms up it's my place. And he won't okay a set schedule because of what he is doing but uses the above as the reason. Oh the above and me and my mouth.
None of our family lives here and I am not telling anyone about what he is doing. I know its on him but it's still humiliating.
I am more than willing to let him visit with the kids and go out. When I offer this, he cancels. If I'm not home he won't come. Not that he comes by much anyway. And that isn't fair to the kids.
At this point I don't actually care if he won't come by. He is the one missing out.
And I know that he is the one that needs to grow up. Just wrote that as it's what he tells me. LOL
Every time he says it I so want to reply like this.....
Him: Grow up!
Me: Says the father of 3 that lives like a perpetual horny teenager! Tee hee
