Thanks for your advice everyone- Georgianelle, so your husband is dating someone about 20 years younger than him?? My goodness these men 😩
Yeah I know it might last, it might not- I'm not sitting here twiddling my thumbs waiting for him to come home to me but I'm giving it a year before I file for divorce. It's just the time frame I want to know the actual reality of the situation of our marriage

Azzork - the friends I'm going down back to do all know me as being married to be honest but I've made one new friend and she has gone through a very similar ordeal to me with her husband so it's nice to get support from her. I like the idea of meeting new people too, once I get settled I think I'm going to take up an evening

I do think he feels guilty about what he's done as he looks like utter crap plus e is being super nice to me but I know he won't admit it


Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1