OMGosh Rain...sometimes I think you and I are talking about the same man. lol That is the exact kind of stuff that would come out of my H's mouth.
I'm glad you are getting your money. Does he know that you know how he spent the money you gave him?
No he doesn't know that I know. And really? Your H too? And here I thought mine was special. LOL
I SO want to be where you are Anna. His crazy is rubbing off on me. If he is so happy and is glad that we are both single now, then why is it that his texts are all somehow putting the blame on me instead of being strictly about child support and The kids?
And it's sad. So very sad. When I would be sad and cry and plead when he would make one of his "we are DONE and it's all your fault!" declarations, it was a turn off. When I DON'T do those things and I resign myself (or pretend to while I am on here being sad and angry and crying) somehow that isn't okay either.
If in his eyes, he finally has what he wanted. To be single, what is the flipping problem. Granted it hasn't been long but I did stop texting him and calling him and leaving him VMs. So what's the deal?!
And I'll be damned if I ask him to change his mind or reconsider for the kids sake. I will NOT do it. I already left the VM the other night. I am not doing it again.