Sandi2, Yes, you're right. I know now that he didn't have his MLC on purpose, and I would never want to have one. But it would be nice to "check out" for a short period of time and not have to deal with anything or have any responsibilities Before the MLC he was a different person. Nobody believed me when I told them about some of the things he was doing.He truly was a MLC-monster. Regardless, I am emotionally spent.