Believe me I understand. I'm sure most of us here do. But one thing that shook me to action - is what you're doing now working? Are you happy with how things are? Do you think you're drawing him in right now? If not, why would you keep doing the same things?

It's all about making that first step and gaining enough inertia to take another. And another. Next thing you know you're not even thinking about it, but you're walking toward your goals.

What is a good first step for you? What might be a meaningful and manageable action?

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou