Tim I know you are looking for that one magic thing that you can do that will make all of this go away.
Sorry to say that it didn't get like this in one day and is not going to be FIXED in one day.
Have you always done everything that your wife TOLD you to do?
Also what was her first marriage that produced the boys like? Why did it end? How long was her first marriage and where does your marriage fit into this?
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Coming up with a goals and a plan along with ways to measure the effects seems daunting... Any advice?
Make the goals about YOU - not about her or the relationship
