If you feed the desire to share with her your feelings in regards to those points then do so. I have always followed my heart and do so even now. I think I have become detached and am not highly motivated to work the problem. Until she unlocks "the door" and cracks it open I see no opportunity for understanding.
What do you hope to achieve but sharing with her? I get it, that it's for you. Do you want her to view you differently? Not trying to be a pain in the arse , just want to see it from your perspective.
