Hi Cil - I'm really sorry for your bad news. Your H's logic is all screwed up.
W appears happier now we are separated....I know lets file for D, that will help her even more.?
Anyway, I know some of the pain you are going through as I got my papers last night. In the UK one of the grounds for D is Unreasonable Behaviour, and the lawyers just make stuff up, or exaggerate, or lie, about all perceived grievances throughout the marriage.
It even said stuff like I didn't do the housework when she was pregnant and afterwards when she had post natal depression - a total fabrication.
I know it's the lawyers job to make this [censored] up but it still hurts to my very core to see it on official documents.
Hugs to you Cilizen
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16