Not sure what to do about the lack of communication in our marriage as I'm not talking to him! I did say at the beginning to him that I thought this was one of our issues and he agreed but don't really know what else to do about that just yet, I know that (if) we do try to reconcile then we would 100% have to work on that


Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1