She was saying its selfish of me to want to be there for him because she thinks he should spend as much time the the 2 of us as possible.
I guess i should just be there for her as a ear to listen if she calls and wants to chat.
The support i was speaking of was with regards to me giving her more emotional attention. Ill need her to help out around the house more and be more independent in order for me to have the time and enrgy to give her that attention.
These statements were taken from your posts in this thread. I'm going to be very blunt with you. She is not going to be the W you want or need. Why? B/c she is the entitled princess and you are the commoner who is there to serve her. Until that dynamic changes, you will never have her respect or her desire for you.
You admit to being a nice guy. The problem I'm seeing is that you seem proud of it. You aren't working on your nice-guy issues b/c you don't understand why a woman wouldn't want a nice guy. Nice-guy types makes good friend material. He is the guy that woman loves like a brother. But sexual desire and respect? Forget it.
Btw, was it your baby or OM's baby? And you felt sorry for her b/c she made the decision to abort it?
Have you even read the little book no more mr. nice guy?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
